Here is what People think about Romance and Money


It’s Love season and it’s worth celebrating.
It is interesting to know that in this generation where everything is fast paced romance seems to still be acknowledged.

Majority of Voters chose that they will rather be in a romance(ful) instead of money(ful) relationship.
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In the light of this,this will be my take:

We must not fail to first of all remember and put to use the knowledge of the fact that romance is a component of Love.

We have the Eros which is the physical, sensual and sexual attraction kind of love between a male and a female or lovers as it were. This is the category of love when we have the butterfly buzzing,gish gish feeling towards our partner.

The Phillia allows couples to be friends with each other, they have that intimacy in friendship where they can bare their heart and soul and they have found a companion in each other. They share their lives,time, moment and help each other without stress.

While the Agape is the unconditional love that has transcended beyond reasons but to a position of choice. This kind of Love does not need the partner to be physically perfect, lovers only have to make the choice of sticking together and enjoying life as it comes there-in.

Love itself is not based on material things so if that relationship must work, we must take away prioritising meeting our material needs as the essence of a working relationship.

This simply means that choosing money over the seemingly ‘first stage’ of Love will be fowl. We already lost the game before we played it!!

Inasmuch as the importance of money cannot be over emphasised, I am of the school of thought that believes that if two people are in a working relationship, full of butterflies in the tummy and all the available drama that comes with it also solid friendship,where there is synergy, positive energy, selflessness and understanding there is no limit to what they can achieve and that thing called money they will have in excess because there would be sound mind and peace for strategizing and pulling one another up.
Love is an experience worth having .It soothes the soul.
Invest in friendship, feelings actually come and go.
Only the choice that you make stays with you forever,therefore choose to Love and stand by it.

I hope this season brings you love in amazing places!!

AroHacares

Personality of the Month

I remember being in love with ebonylife TV… they were just starting out, I had seen the hype, advert and could not wait for the package to kick off!!

Of cos the station started in 2013 and I was always glued to that channel 165! Its ebony life!!

I also remember that I loved watching this late night show on Love with my lovely natural hair presenter Oreka Godis called Love Lounge. Interesting topics were discussed.

I remember they had controversial topics and they had professional panelists to discuss these topics too

I remember getting attracted to his contribution, I then decided to find him out!!

We all get to a point in our lives when we feel like we need to know more, we yearn for more knowledge about our area of interest and if you are inquisitive like me you will want to ask questions from the professionals!!

I yearned for Jerome’s involvement!

This quest was coupled with all the drama going on….
I just wanted balance
For me he’s got balance….he put perspective, he shinned a light and also straightened my spirituality

He is blunt and sensitive, he is quite wise.
It’s love season, he deals with LOVE things winks

Jerome Yaovi Onipede is the Chief Consultant at Jerome Is Talking LTD.
He is an ASSOCIATE of the TRACOM Group USA and also the first African certified by the TRACOM Group to administer and deliver the Social Styles and Versatility.

Jerome is changing the world by using a refreshing approach in seeing, understanding, and including others in our lives.

He believes that different doesn’t necessarily mean wrong, and learning to include others along with the uniqueness that they bring into our circle, team, family, community, society, organization, etc, can only make us bigger, stronger and well rounded.

Jerome Yaovi Onipede is a Personal Counselor/Relationships Coach and Matchmaker. He believes in Love and Romance and when it comes to living, he knows love has everything to do with it.

He says that Instead of running away from love, let’s rather look at where and how we are getting it wrong, become wise through our mistakes, and learn to love right and live well. We can learn to love God, ourselves, and others.

I just want to live my life, so what’s love got to do with it?

“I come across people everyday who are alive, but not living. Living does not happen because you are alive, but because you love. By ourselves we can enjoy life, but to really appreciate life we must find companionship.

Once you have learned to love, you will have learned to live, and you will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.

The moments you told the truth,when you trusted another without reservation, when you had respect for another irrespective of differences. Those moments you felt closer, and not far away. Those were your living moments, because through love you covered a multitude of sins”

Visit the website below to know more of the services offered at Jerome is talking!

http://www.jeromeistalking.org
@jeromeistalking (Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter)

However it’s love season:
You can spend this season with your spouse at the couples retreat!


Check here for more: https://arohaspace.com/2019/02/05/loving-your-imperfections-a-taste-of-heaven-couples-retreat/

LOVING YOUR IMPERFECTIONS! A Taste of Heaven Couples Retreat.

Do perfect spouses, marriages, families exist? From personal experience,  I will say no, I haven’t been in contact with any under heaven, but I know PERFECT LOVE exist, and when it comes in contact with imperfection,  it has a way of making up for every fault, abuse, mistake, etc through forgiveness that comes from anyone that has allowed himself or herself to become the channel of unconditional love.

Sam Keen says “You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” 

This is very true and also very practical, however a lot of Marriages are not working today, because we are looking for a perfect spouse.

Most of the time we are trained to go into marriage with conditional love rather than unconditional, and so it becomes very easy to love our spouse when he or she meets up with our expectations of them, and when they don’t or can’t, it’s just logical to stop loving, and let them know through words or actions how disappointed we are.

This happens because we are also looking for someone who will complete us, rather than compliment us in marriage. We have this deep feeling that we are incomplete as a person, and we are right about that, but to think its another person that will complete us is wrong, because only our Creator can do that, while our spouse can only compliment us.

At this A Taste of Heaven Couples Retreat tagged Loving Your Imperfections, our goal is to help married couples see each other from God’s Perspective, and start seeing the imperfect spouse perfectly.

To chose your Dates, Reservations and more information on this, please follow this link https://jeromeistalking.org/couples-retreat/

We look forward to having you in Cotonou, Benin Republic this February.

CEDARS GRACE FAMILY BANQUET

CEDARS House of Grace is said to stage its banquet and Grand launch holding on Sunday, 3rd February at The Grand Atrium, Lekki Lagos.

The senior pastor Rev. Gbeminiyi Eboda said “It’s a grand launch and the birth of a new church family. We are inviting everyone in transit, in a new season, on a quest for answers to life’s probing questions, and in search of true meaning.”

“we are a God-sensitive and seeker-friendly church in an environment and atmosphere where people’s needs are constantly being met, their minds empowered through the provision of relevant information and sustainable inspiration, their spirits fed, and men and women are stirred up into action with passion towards the fulfilment of their God-ordained destinies”.

CEDARS House of Grace is a church that believes in adding value the lives of people through various means.

This banquet is an avenue to showcase God’s love to people in the community and ultimately make them know that the church’s doors are wide open to receive them in their anytime.

Reflections of AroHa

So I was thinking and then I thought to ask

Which would you prefer?

Relationship that comes with shivers (this sizzling kind of love that makes you feel fly,high and butterflies buzzy and crazy all the time)

or

a relationship that comes with money and nothing else but just available money to spend around the world 😁

Value Relationships

We sometimes do not appreciate others to the fullest capacity at which we should.

Some are Lucky because they have the chance to re-think and re-evaluate so they can finally admire others and appreciate roles they have played in their lives.

This thought process of acknowledging the role of people is stirred by memories of people that have transcended the shores of mortals and it has become impossible to see, feel, touch or laugh with them anymore. At least not in this territory called “Earth“.

Other set of people are those that due to life happenings you became far apart, living in different continent with a new way of life and other things that makes us to miss each others daily activities.

There are others who due to our resolutions and goals have separated us and reduced the intimacy in our relationships.

We should often make the best use of every time and situation we have and make the best of relationships, be it family, workplace or any other.

Cherish the friends you can literally touch,hug, smile with and at, gist and sleep beside, these moments won’t last forever.

Take not for granted those far away that you can still visit, check up on them.
Appreciate the ones you can call, face time, video call and Skype.

For the ones that have due to resolution or decision become strangers, you can only wonder or try to understand why it has become so, after which you will choose either to cherish the past times or do away with the memories.

For those you cannot see anymore , we can pray that they rest in peace, miss them and then pray for them once again.

To those that have lost a loved one either to death, bad relationship or personal decision I pray for the fortitude to bear the Loss and Pain.

I also pray for you :strength to carry on!!

My people take the comment section of this page to mention that person you miss, pray for that person you lost

Message that person that is still alive!

Profess your Love, show how much you care!!

Make that call!!! Appreciate those that are still near and dear to your heart!!!

Selah !!