The Accuser [Part 1]

Have you ever been innocent about an incident and you are accused of being guilty?
The allegation is so perfectly curled, it’s beginning to look like you actually committed the offence

Just because the person gets opportunity to a demi semi fraction of information that has no actual connection to the incidence, in which you probably actually played a role, it’s amplified and used as a main subject.

I just described the ministry of an accuser!

As humans we need to be aware of that ministry!! It’s unfortunate that we don’t easily detect until it tears into our self esteem and we then begin to see ourselves as failures and inadequate….we even begin to act out the script that was played to us by accusation….we begin to become that person that we have been accused to be.

It is dangerously dangerous to live and have toxic people around you, they don’t only hinder your progress, they see no good thing in you,they even demerit you in the sight of people that have huge esteem of you,they just wanna pull you down,talk you down,marginalise you,be in competition with you…the list is endless.

Accusers are abusers!!! The effect of abusers is not hidden,they beat you,maybe not always physically but emotionally,they damage you,they perceive you as a victim,You may even begin to reflect abuse by being abusive depending on your self strength, you go into depression and you become hopeless…..

Abusers manipulate you in your area of weakness, they use your greatest needs to enslave you….

An accuser is a critic,unsympathetic and nothing is ever satiable in their sight,there just must be a fault, they seem to know all, they elate themselves higher than any mistake and every other person, they are the only one that can do it right!

An accuser cannot love you,love does not even keep records of wrong not to even think about acting, bringing to remembrance and doing sweet manipulation of tiny bits of your action to form a case!!

As Christians,Satan is mostly termed the accuser of brethren but my direct question is: does he come to dwell in the midst of us as he is spirit? Nope, he sends a critic,a slander and abuser either to the church as a whole or to individuals to truncate their God ordained destiny!

It is therefore very important that every human finds or knows his/her purpose in life.
Knowing and understanding what you were made for allows you to identify and choose your right circle.

Let me stop here…watch out for part II

The remaining part of this month will be awesome for us all….its not yet late for that pleasant surprise….wait for it, it will come to pass!

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Personality of the Month

I remember being in love with ebonylife TV… they were just starting out, I had seen the hype, advert and could not wait for the package to kick off!!

Of cos the station started in 2013 and I was always glued to that channel 165! Its ebony life!!

I also remember that I loved watching this late night show on Love with my lovely natural hair presenter Oreka Godis called Love Lounge. Interesting topics were discussed.

I remember they had controversial topics and they had professional panelists to discuss these topics too

I remember getting attracted to his contribution, I then decided to find him out!!

We all get to a point in our lives when we feel like we need to know more, we yearn for more knowledge about our area of interest and if you are inquisitive like me you will want to ask questions from the professionals!!

I yearned for Jerome’s involvement!

This quest was coupled with all the drama going on….
I just wanted balance
For me he’s got balance….he put perspective, he shinned a light and also straightened my spirituality

He is blunt and sensitive, he is quite wise.
It’s love season, he deals with LOVE things winks

Jerome Yaovi Onipede is the Chief Consultant at Jerome Is Talking LTD.
He is an ASSOCIATE of the TRACOM Group USA and also the first African certified by the TRACOM Group to administer and deliver the Social Styles and Versatility.

Jerome is changing the world by using a refreshing approach in seeing, understanding, and including others in our lives.

He believes that different doesn’t necessarily mean wrong, and learning to include others along with the uniqueness that they bring into our circle, team, family, community, society, organization, etc, can only make us bigger, stronger and well rounded.

Jerome Yaovi Onipede is a Personal Counselor/Relationships Coach and Matchmaker. He believes in Love and Romance and when it comes to living, he knows love has everything to do with it.

He says that Instead of running away from love, let’s rather look at where and how we are getting it wrong, become wise through our mistakes, and learn to love right and live well. We can learn to love God, ourselves, and others.

I just want to live my life, so what’s love got to do with it?

“I come across people everyday who are alive, but not living. Living does not happen because you are alive, but because you love. By ourselves we can enjoy life, but to really appreciate life we must find companionship.

Once you have learned to love, you will have learned to live, and you will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.

The moments you told the truth,when you trusted another without reservation, when you had respect for another irrespective of differences. Those moments you felt closer, and not far away. Those were your living moments, because through love you covered a multitude of sins”

Visit the website below to know more of the services offered at Jerome is talking!

http://www.jeromeistalking.org
@jeromeistalking (Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter)

However it’s love season:
You can spend this season with your spouse at the couples retreat!


Check here for more: https://arohaspace.com/2019/02/05/loving-your-imperfections-a-taste-of-heaven-couples-retreat/